You Might Feel Hopeless Along the Way— But If It’s Meant to Be, It Will Be

I grew up believing that the stars above are all connected together. No matter how far they are from each other, they have their own means to bridge the distance. Same with destiny, we all have our own fate in life and in love. We may not notice, but it’s really working behind our back. Destiny has a spectacular set of invisible arms that linger around our actions, words, and decisions to lead us to where we should be or to work out what fate prepares for us in the future. No matter how much we strive to be in our preferred life disposition, if it’s not meant to be, it will not fully take place. 

We are free to choose whoever we want to fall in love with. We can hang out with the guys we’ve just met on the internet. We can date anybody in the school. We can transform a nerdy little girl into a sweet cutie pie of our dreams. But what will happen next is not ours to decide. It’s destiny that will lay down the path and drop the final verdict. 

What’s Next?

It’s actually easy to express our romantic feelings to anyone. We can buy a flower and a chocolate bar, and send them to her address with a plain tag “from your secret admirer.” Wander around a particular place where she used to spend her free time, and catch the perfect moment to corner her and confess your feelings. But the tough challenge here is how to make this person fall in love with you too. 

If you think that you’re in top control of everything because you have all the means to convey your feelings to someone, well maybe, you’re just getting too confident— which is obviously a bad thing because it might hurt you terribly in the end. The rejection fueled with too much expectation can yield a more ruinous pain. 

Nonetheless, I have secrets to reveal how you can increase the chance of winning your dream girl’s heart. There are actually two ways, but these aren’t through her stomach.   

Unleashed

Expressing your love for someone you desire the most is obviously the first and easiest step in this process. But not everybody knows that this is also a long-term requirement. The way how you show your love on the first day must still be seen and felt until her last breath. That’s consistency, the first of the two secrets. If you’re really eager for this girl, you should not stop making her feel she’s special and one-of-a-kind. Even if she’s not responsive, you must stick to your romantic plan and bring it in action. Unless she finalized that she wants you out of her life, you should never miss a single day without you stealing her attention. Honestly, it’s not really the material things and money that count. It’s your sincerity, the latter of the secret ways. 

If you’re really sincere with your feelings, you’ll be consistent until the end. You’ll always listen to her stories even if what she’s talking about is not your thing. You’ll always wish her the best even if she barely replies to your messages. And even if she dumps you for some personal reason, you should still consider being friends with her. That’s sincerity. 

You know what? Consistency and sincerity work in most unexpected relationships out there. There were barriers, setbacks, and unsolicited events, but love was able to find a way in because of these two important gateways. Destiny has validated the sincerity and consistency that’s why; it allows these relationships to work out regardless of how hard the situation is. 

In this business, winning someone’s heart should not be your main focus. But rather, you should devote yourself to making this person feel every day that she’s winning because someone consistent and sincere is coming on her way. Right? 

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